The Aftermath

OK y’all. These are rough times.  Everyone’s mad. Trump’s got us all freewheeling on the end of his unyielding yo-yo string.  Executive orders are flying and the worst of our fears are coming true.  But we can’t live like this.  We just can’t.  It’s not sustainable.  We are all going to have early heart attacks or drinking problems or politics-induced panic disorder or some newly-minted diagnosis that will spring up as a result of these twisted-ass times.

Today I had to take a deep breathe and remember that we are dealing with a crazy person. A literal crazy person who happens to have been elected president or our United States.  We cannot be surprised by any action he takes from this point forward.  He has a mental illness and he will continue to take action on any unwieldy, unreasonable, emotionally-charged whim that crosses his mind and is within—albeit questionably—his democratic power.  So there’s that.  No more surprises.  This is just who he is.  And maybe who a lot of America is since we voted for him en masse.

Here are some thoughts and paths forward I’ve been thinking on:

  • As a person of many privileges, my life will probably not be that directly impacted or damaged no matter who is in office.
  • Having said that, many people’s lives will and already have been torn at the seams and it’s my place to protect and defend those lives.
  • I am done with protesting—for now, at least. And in thinking about where to pick up the torch and go to battle I’ve landed on doing more of what I’m already doing with what’s before me.
    • Writing: I want to do more of this in a way that’s useful for folks on both sides of the aisle. I want to do this to articulate how strongly I think and feel about our shared humanity and pointing to ways in which we do not protect that and how we can do better.
    • Dialogue: I want to create spaces for dialogue. Because I believe that is the only thing that will truly get us out of this polarized mess we’re in. These spaces will be in casual conversations with friends, on social media, through art and through finding people on both sides who are willing to at least engage—not agree, just engage.
    • Work: As a person in a place of leadership at my workplace, I have a responsibility to create an environment and culture that challenges the status quo and flips oppression on it’s head. I want to find new avenues to recruit employees that have been typically left out of the mainstream—those with criminal convictions or disabilities or a lack of formal education. I want to pave the way for people of color to take on leadership positions and advocate for higher salaries of all non-profit workers. I want to make sure we are not only providing services to people, but are offering them ways to connect with and use their own power—through voting or community organizing or knowing their rights.
    • Criminal Justice: While Trump is shutting out refugees, we have millions of men and women in our country’s prisons who feel and are treated like foreigners in their own homeland. In fact, many who have come home refer to themselves as “returning citizens”. We are incarcerating men and women because we have been taught to fear their skin color and have recruited a police force who embrace that fear in the line of duty. Because we have underfunded their neighborhoods and their schools and left them with no other options. And when these men and women have completed their sentences we continue to punish them with supervised parole and withholding their voting rights and finding every excuse not to hire them based on their past convictions. And God knows what this presidency has in store for them. So I will continue to fight their fight until we have a justice system that is, in fact, just.

 

 

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One thought on “The Aftermath

  1. Jim

    I appreciate your writing this article. It gives a good representation as to the attitude that Americans should take as to the times in which we live. America has been through rough times before. What makes this period different is that instead of bringing the country together, Washington (Trump, his administration and congress) is driving a stack between and through us. Democracy works because our citizenship can talk openly. And our citizenship is defined as everyone, regardless as to their motive or position in our society. Sadly, today we have leadership that does not understand that basic freedom and who has developed a following that fails to recognize that as well.

    It makes the job harder to fix things. However, your article is a positive start with ideas I hope you do not give up on – a single voice can make a difference if it can effectively move the dialogue in a positive direction. Today, the number one problem is fear. We fear to express an intelligent argument to our family, our co-workers, and our friends – we fear their retaliation. But, if we keep talking, slowly they will answer our views with their own views, moving democracy forward.

    Next, I agree with you that we each can move democracy forward by simply being a good citizen. Respect for one another is essential to being a good citizen. In previous times of crisis, Americans did not address everything as it being personal – there was not vulgarity directed at each other in our anger. That is Trump and his administration’s biggest fault. And that is NOT leadership.

    Second, reaching out to help one another is paramount to a free society. That means reaching out in our employment, to our family, our friends and those that simply need help. Helping is not a weakness in any government or society, failure to help is!

    I look forward to your next article.

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